The Society and the outerself

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 Hello dear readers,

Hope you all doing great. Here is the next blog that would surely make you think, hope so.

Our instant happiness is when someone appreciates that "you are looking good today!" Agree?

At most of the times we are judged by our outer apperance and even we would have made judgements about the people.

Being skinny or fat doesn't make you less of human.

Being dark or colored doesn't make you less of Indian.

Being short or height doesn't make you less of gender.

Ooh! She looks terror and she looks cute! 

Who knows the venom might be sitting next to you with beautiful eyes! 

It is all in the eyes of the beholder.

Let 'em think what they wanted to!!


 There are lot many people who feel insecure with their own body and appearance. Even if they felt confident on oneself, the people around will always make them feel less.

 Absolutely, 

"you are too skinny, eat well" or if 

"you gained weight, reduce it" or 

"you look darker, put some facepacks" 

Here, what I find comic here is 'parents of young children started to feed the thoughts of being fair and slim from young age.' When the child grew up, they would definitely feel less confident, if they aren't liking themselves.


One must know to love one's own inner & outerself, to be more confident and powerful. 


"Some unknown person at an icecream shop asked me , why do you have dark spots on your skin, why don't you treat it? " And this old lady pointed the question straight to me without having second thoughts. I just replied, it will fade away by time. It doesn't hurt me but I just think about the people we are surrounded and their thoughts on us. Is nothing there good enough to note in me!! Lol...It is natural for human body to react to something outwards, we can't stress it much to stop. Let it breathe out! Let it heal in its own way. Don't let this to make you feel down. 


Hey lovelies, 

Embrace yourself more

With the flaws and scars,

You define you! 


Accept the way you look, 

And work on the way you think!


Praise yourself for the things you did

And cherish the present you live! 


Remember, only to compare you 

With your own self.


Better make your inner self happy & strong

Rather than painting the outerself.


Your identity must be your wisdom and 

The position you create to be in your life. 


At the end of the day, one must feel happy & peaceful with good health. But this is what we struggle in present days. Focus on things that are valuable and a reminder, "you are beautiful the way you are!"


P.s. It is completely an individual's opinion, focusing on one's outerself & working on it. 

Everytime when I end the blog with the word "hope" I mean it because, I really hope that someone somewhere who read this would have gained some hope in life. 


With Hope,

Anushiya.







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